She Who Writes Her Narrative Rules Her Destiny
The Coded Stories Method®
What is the Coded Stories Method®?
The Coded Stories Method® is a transformative approach that helps you decode the stories shaping your life and consciously construct new frameworks that align with your truest self and personal sovereignty.
Unlike traditional methods that focus on rewriting past stories, this approach moves beyond your old scripts and guides you to craft entirely new narratives; ones that honour your essence, sovereignty, and expansive vision for the future.
We don’t rewrite old stories because, where stories are closed loops with predetermined endings, narratives are open-ended frameworks that invite you to express your inherent power and embrace new possibilities.
Through the Coded Stories Method®, you’ll move beyond surface-level stories and into the deeper narrative that shapes your identity, purpose, and sense of possibility, allowing you to live with clarity, confidence and personal sovereignty.
Why I Use the Coded Stories Method®?
Every woman has stories she tells herself about who she is, what she can do, and where she fits in the world, especially if she is a black woman, woman of colour, queer woman or from a marginalised community. These stories are often influenced by societal conditioning, generational imprints, and lived experiences.
They can lead to playing small, people-pleasing, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs – even though the truth is you are already enough.
But behind every story is a deeper narrative, the conceptual framework that defines how we see ourselves and what we believe is possible for our lives.
Through The Coded Stories Method®, we shift your perspective from just “fixing” your old stories to redefining the entire narrative you live by.
Identifying the coded narratives influencing your beliefs, patterns, and emotions.
Understanding how these narratives are stored in your body and impact your emotional well-being.
Constructing a new, sovereign-worthy narrative that aligns with your essence, identity, and aspirations.
Developing self-regulation and emotional mastery to anchor your new narrative into your daily life.
This isn’t about simply thinking differently. It’s about shifting the very foundation from which you live, make decisions, and shape your destiny.
The 5 Key Elements of the Coded Stories Method®
Coded Stories + the Body
Stories don’t exist in isolation. They are shaped by culture, relationships, and experiences.
We’ll map out the ecosystem of your stories to identify what reinforces them.
You’ll gain clarity on what needs to shift to reclaim your power and sovereignty and step into conscious authorship of your life’s direction.
This process liberates you from external validation and returns you to your own inner truth.
Coded Beliefs + the Mind
At the root of every limiting story is a coded belief – an unconscious truth you’ve accepted that shapes your identity, choices, and limits.
We’ll uncover the deep-seated beliefs driving your self-worth and decisions, trace their origins – from societal conditioning to past experiences and dissolve outdated beliefs to make space for a new, empowered narrative.
Coded Beliefs and Patterns
Beliefs shape patterns – the recurring cycles in behaviour, emotions, and experiences that keep you stuck.
We’ll map out the patterns that have been reinforcing your old stories, whether in relationships, career, or self-perception.
We’ll replace these patterns with new, conscious habits that align with your expanded identity and goals, so that you can reclaim the power to shape your life with intention, clarity, and personal sovereignty.
The Ecosystem of a Story
Stories don’t exist in isolation.
They are influenced by the environments, people, and situations around you.
By mapping your story ecosystem, we can better understand what keeps them alive and begin to shift your relationship to them so you can release those that you’re ready to let go of, take back your power and preserve your personal sovereignty.
Coded Powers and Gifts
Within every story, even the painful ones, there lies a sacred message, an untapped potential, and the blueprint to return to the Enough self within. Just as a caterpillar carries the code for its wings within its DNA, we, too, are encoded with vast potential to unfold.
The Coded Stories Method® helps you uncover the wisdom, resilience, and strengths hidden within your journey to guide you on your sovereign path to your complete and enough self.
Narrative Construction in Coaching
She Who Writes Her Narrative Rules Her Destiny.
In our work together, the Coded Stories Method® guides you beyond just identifying limiting stories. We focus intentionally in constructing a narrative, an open ended framework that reflects your personal sovereignty, fullest expression of self and your evolving aspirations.
Unlike a story, which has a beginning, middle, and end, a narrative is a living framework that you actively construct and embody. It’s the source code for your future stories, authored by you. When you take up the pen and become the author of your narrative, you claim the power to shape your destiny.
Together, we’ll:
Uncover the old narratives driving your current life.
Identify the beliefs and patterns that are supporting those narratives.
Construct new narratives that honour your inherent worth and sovereignty.
Embody the new narrative so that it becomes the foundation for the stories and experiences you create moving forward.
When you take up the pen and become the author of your narrative, you claim the power to shape your own destiny.
Take Control of Your Narrative
Your narrative defines the frame of your life. It influences the stories you live out daily and determines whether you remain stuck in outdated beliefs or expand into the life you know is meant for you.
Through The Coded Stories Method®, you will:
Rewrite the subconscious codes shaping your reality.
Expand your vision beyond past limitations.
Step into personal sovereignty with confidence and clarity.
Live from a place of worthiness, expansion, and self-trust.
Are you ready to claim the full authorship of your life?
Your Next Step
Start with a Narrative Review & Roadmap™ Session, your first step in constructing a new, sovereign-worthy narrative for your life or business.
