The Work
Not Enough Syndrome™ is misunderstood.
We all know the loop: I’m not good enough. Not smart enough. Not successful enough. Not [fill-in-the-blank] enough.
Those stories don’t mean there is anything wrong with us. They’re part of a coded system I call the Not Enough Archetypes™. Each archetype carries shadow patterns that keep you in the loop and hidden strengths that, when harnessed with intention, become your real power.
The work is simple: decode the archetype, unstory the narrative, harness the gifts.
Not Enough Archetypes™ = Codes of Brilliance
Which Not Enough Archetype™ shadow hides genius ?
The voice that says you’re not good enough, smart enough, or [fill-in-the-blank] enough? That’s a Not Enough Archetype™ signalling it’s time to decode and return to your brilliance.
Each Not Enough Archetype™ has shadow patterns that drain your energy when overactive, and that’s the signal to anchor into your gift.
Take this revealing quiz to uncover:
Which Not Enough Archetype™ is most active in your life right now.
The shadow pattern driving your inner doubt, and the coded brilliance it’s pointing you back to.
The hidden gift your archetype holds when you anchor into it.
Simple next steps to begin harnessing that gift.
I'm Ebi Lewis, the Not Enough Syndrome™ Specialist.
I’ve dedicated my work to understanding why accomplished people still struggle with persistent narratives of inadequacy.
What I discovered? You can’t be free from a story if you’re still in it.
Most approaches try to rewrite your story, build confidence, or “fix your mindset.” They might shift things for a while, but the loop always returns.
This work is different.
This is narrative liberation. Using the deep architecture of my proven Coded Stories Method®, we step out of the loop and become Unstoried® from specific not enough stories.
Not Enough is brilliance misunderstood.
Do You Recognise These Not Enough Archetype™ Signals”
When proving is a reflex.
The exhausting need to earn acceptance, love, or approval through endless doing. And no matter how much you do, it never feels like enough.
→ Hidden intelligence: This pattern wants to keep you safe and valued.
Overthinking becomes a loop.
Lying awake replaying conversations, thinking “Should I have said that?” Second-guessing your actions or quietly doubting yourself.
→ Hidden intelligence: This pattern helps you to stay prepared and avoid mistakes.
When it's easier to please people to keep the peace.
Saying yes when your body screams no, terrified of disappointing anyone but yourself.
→ Hidden intelligence: This pattern shows up when you want harmonious connection and safety.
When you get lost in perfecting the details.
Moving the goalposts every time you achieve something, because "it wasn't that good" or “What if they don’t like it?”
→ Hidden intelligence: This is designed to protect you from rejection.
When doubt knocks despite accomplishments
Waiting for someone to tap you on the shoulder and say "We made a mistake" or afraid of “being found out.
→ Hidden intelligence: This pattern helps you question your readiness and competence before stepping forward. It assesses genuine preparedness.
When what others think and say matters too much.
Checking your phone for likes, refreshing emails for praise, needing others to confirm your worth.
→ Hidden intelligence: This pattern is asking for authentic connection.
When You See the Pattern, You See the Signal.
These expressions of Not Enough are not flaws. They are structured patterns of hidden intelligence.
Each one loops for a reason. Not to sabotage you. But to protect something specific.
Every loop is brilliance with a job. And the shadow is your internal signal that the job has been running too long.
Once you see it, you can redirect it. You can anchor into the gift and give that brilliance a new role.
That is what it means to become Unstoried®.
Each Not Enough Archetype™ carries a safety signature, a shadow reflex, and a gift expression. Together, they code your brilliance.
When You Anchor into the Gift
This method reveals the coded structure beneath the loop. It shows you how to anchor into the gift.
How it Works
From core code to clarity, through each layer of the loop.
The Coded Stories Method® begins at the core code of your Not Enough Syndrome™ pattern.
It works outward through your beliefs, loops, and environment, decoding the structure that holds the story in place.
Each layer reveals the survival intelligence beneath your patterns.
Each step opens the way to anchor into the gift.
This is how brilliance becomes directive instead of reactive.
This is how we become Unstoried®.
Start the Work
There are tailored ways to work with this method, each designed to meet a different expression of the loop and help redirect your coded brilliance.
For You
Where Brilliance Stops Looping
End the cycles of overthinking, self-doubt, and people-pleasing.
Begin the shift from hidden survival patterns to conscious, anchored clarity. This is where becoming Unstoried® begins.
For Leaders, Founders & Entrepreneurs
Lead with Clarity and Authority
Step beyond the Not Enough loops that dilute vision, disrupt communication, and stall confident execution.
For Organisations
Brilliance at the Cultural Level
Overwork, under-communication, burnout. These are story-level patterns. Decode the loops running your teams and unlock sustainable clarity, trust, and performance.
What Clients Say About Working With Their Code
I spent years in therapy trying to fix myself. Ebi helped me see there was never anything wrong with me. I’d just been caught up in old stories. Letting them go was such a relief. Honestly, there’s no way to explain what it’s like to be free of something that’s been in your head for so long. I’m just so grateful for Ebi
Jennifer R., Entrepreneur
Ebi Lewis is a very kind, warm, skillful and perceptive coach. I found her to be wonderful at holding space for me as I grappled with upsetting issues in my life. She was able to help me get clarity, give insightful support and also hold me accountable. I recommend Ebi Lewis very highly as a coach!
Jessica F. Jones – Mt. Pleasant, SC. USA
I’d never even heard of Not Enough Syndrome until Ebi mentioned it and suddenly so much clicked. I realised it was chipping away at my confidence and making me apologise for everything. Honestly, I just thought it was me being a polite Brit! Working with her has completely changed the way I think about myself.
Sarah M. Marketing Executive
For the first time in my life, I actually feel good about who I am and what I’ve achieved. The story that I could never measure up to my high-achieving siblings has gone. I’ve stopped proving myself. Ebi’s way of working is unlike anything else I’ve ever tried. Thanks Ebi.
Dr. Lisa K. Physician
