The Unstoried® Insights Session
A 90-minute session to decode the Not Enough Archetype® shaping how you operate under pressure and articulate the brilliance held within it.
What this Session is
This is a focused, one-off working session designed to identify the dominant Not Enough Archetype® shaping your current experience and show you how to step out of the loop and operate from your natural strength.
Brilliant Minds on Overdrive
Recognise any of this?
You lie awake at night replaying the same conversation, wishing you’d said something different.
Rest feels uncomfortable, almost irresponsible, unless it’s “earned.”
You see exactly how something could be, and that makes starting feel overwhelming.
You hold yourself to standards you’d never demand from anyone else.
Your mind never really turns off. It just changes topics, on and on.
You’re quicker to point out what’s wrong than to recognise what’s already working, often being harsher on yourself than anyone else.
If you’ve taken the Not Enough Archetype® Quiz, you may already see yourself in what’s described here.
This is how Not Enough Syndrome® patterns show up in daily life.
What’s usually missing is an understanding of what the pattern is actually pointing to.
What Happens in the Session
Across 90 minutes, the session moves through four distinct phases.
Identification
The most dominant Not Enough Archetype® is identified as a code, not a problem to fix. It shows how you naturally respond to pressure, move through work and relationships, and what your system defaults to when the stakes feel high.
Decoding
We decode the narrative structure of the pattern: how it operates, how it recurs, and what this intelligence is oriented toward protecting or maintaining.
Gift Recognition
The strength at the core of the archetype is articulated. This is not an aspirational quality. It's your natural way of being.
Application Orientation
The final part of the session anchors that gift into real-world domains: how it shows up in the way you lead, build, relate, teach, decide, or create.
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The Key Shift
Most people see patterns like people-pleasing, perfectionism, or overthinking as flaws.
In this work, they’re understood differently.
Each Not Enough Archetype® reveals:
- A person’s natural strength.
- Their preferred way of contributing.
- Their native way of sensing and responding.
- Their core intelligence when safety is intact.
When that intelligence is recognised, it becomes something you can lead from, not manage.
You stop trying to be different. You start operating from your natural brilliance.
What this Looks Like in Real Life
If the session reveals the People Pleaser archetype, what becomes visible is not a problem to manage, but a gift to harness and build with.
The Harmoniser is the gift at the core of this archetype. It describes someone who:
- Reads emotional dynamics with precision
- Creates inclusive, high-trust environments
- Navigates complexity with diplomacy
- Builds consensus without self-erasure
When this gift operates unconsciously, it can distort into self-sacrifice.
When led with awareness, it becomes a strategic and relational strength.
It becomes diplomacy, leadership, and grounded influence, without losing boundaries.
This principle applies across every Not Enough Archetype®.
The shadow reveals pressure. The gift reveals intelligence.
This is the kind of shift the session supports.
The Real Point of this Session
Not Enough Archetypes® are not flaws. They are adaptive intelligence that formed early and became automatic patterns.
But the real intelligence is not in the loop. It’s in the design the loop points back to.
- What appears as overachieving may be the precision of an Architect.
- What presents as self-silencing may hold the discernment of a Grounded Authority.
- What looks like comparison may carry the momentum of an Evolver.
This session names that. And once named, the gift becomes visible and usable.
Language becomes available. Language that allows a person to operate from intelligence already present.
What You Leave With
The session produces:
A clear identification of the dominant Not Enough Archetype®.
A decoded map of how that archetype functions and recurs.
A formal articulation of the gift it contains.
Recognition of how that gift already informs your leadership, creative process, relational dynamics, or strategic thinking.
A clear way to operate from the intelligence of your gift and consciously become Unstoried® from pattern loops in real situations.
The session does not install something new. It makes visible strength and power you are already using, but unnamed and underutilised.
My story review blew my mind. I used to feel stressed and overwhelmed every time I said, “I don’t have time.” The review helped me change this. Now I simply say, “It’s not a priority.” Just that small change gives me clarity and focus every time. I find it empowering. I choose what I do and when I do it, without guilt.
Debbie G . UK
What this Session is Not
This is not about:
- Fixing you
- Reframing your mindset.
- Building confidence on top of old patterns.
- Learning coping strategies.
You’re not being taught how to become someone else. You’re recognising who you already are when you’re not looping.
Investment
£497
This is a fixed investment based on function, not time.
Should you continue into further work, this fee is credited toward the full work.
It’s been 5 weeks since my story review and I’m grateful to Ebi. I’m more aware of the voice in my head. The biggest takeaway and change from my session is the “If only…” stories I had been telling myself. They made me give up on things before I even started. Now I’m embracing my dream of being an artist and I feel alive.
Jacqui B . UK
I cannot thank you enough, Ebi. It feels incredible to free myself from the limiting ‘broke money story’ I was living. Even my body feels lighter and more at ease after letting it go. Looking forward to talking soon!
Rebecca N . UK
About the Work
The session uses the Coded Stories Method®, a narrative decoding framework developed by Ebi Lewis through lived experience, client work, and years of applied practice.
We don’t rewrite stories.
We don’t manage patterns.
We identify the architecture beneath them and step out of the loop.
The Unstoried® Insight Session is guided by the Coded Stories Method®, created for people whose patterns proved resistant to conventional coaching, therapy, or personal development approaches.
With 20+ years of experience, Ebi Lewis created this method through lived experience, client work, and years of applied practice.
Still Got Questions?
Is this therapy or coaching?
No. This is a narrative decoding session. We are not working on symptoms, emotional processing, or behaviour change strategies. The session focuses on identifying the dominant Not Enough Archetype® shaping your current experience and articulating the intelligence and strength held within it.
Do I need to take the Not Enough Archetype® Quiz before the session?
No. The session works whether or not you’ve taken the quiz. Some people take it beforehand for orientation, others don’t. The session itself identifies the dominant archetype through direct exploration.
Is one session really enough?
Yes, for its purpose. This is a focused working session designed to name the pattern, decode how it functions, and articulate the gift it contains. It is not intended to do everything. It is intended to create clarity, language, and a clear way of operating from your natural strength moving forward.
For some people, that's enough to shift how they operate. Others continue into the full Become Unstoried® programme (5 sessions) for deeper integration.
What happens after the session?
Some people integrate what they’ve uncovered on their own. Others choose to continue into deeper work. There is no requirement or expectation to continue. If you do continue, the session fee is credited toward that work.
Is this suitable for leaders, founders, or people in senior roles?
Yes. Many people come to this session because they are capable, experienced, and functioning well externally, but sense they are operating from pressure rather than from their natural intelligence. The session applies equally to personal and leadership contexts.
Investment
£497
This is a fixed investment based on function, not time.
Should you continue into further work, this fee is credited toward the full work.