Unstoried Empress
Get Throne Ready
12 Months to Sovereign Transformation
An elevated container for women who are done shrinking.
Unstoried Empress
Your aligned journey From 'Not Enough' stories to sovereign leadership.
You are here because you are ready for yourself.
You’ve built, led, accomplished. And still, you find yourself feeling small. Like you’re not enough.
You know there’s an undeniable woman inside you. One who doesn’t need to prove her worth. One who leads from her truth. Who takes up space without having to explain yourself.
What if you could step completely free from the not enough stories keeping you in the loop of proving yourself or imposterhood?
What if you could take your rightful throne, be seated in your worth, and lead the life you feel in your bones? The one you were born to live.
This is your 12-month sacred journey from narrative imprisonment to authentic power.
This is where the ‘someday’ version of you becomes now.
What No One Talks About
You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books. You’ve tried the affirmations.
But beneath the surface, something intimate and persistent still loops.
You lie awake replaying conversations, wondering if you said the right thing. You reach milestone after milestone but still think, “I just got lucky.” You’re exhausted from the mental gymnastics of trying to convince yourself you’re worthy while that familiar, quiet voice whispers you’re not.
What’s happening? You’re caught in story loops.
They cycle from beginning to middle to end and start again. You think you’ve moved past something, then find yourself right back there—emotions rushing through your body as if it’s happening now.
The same patterns. The same self-doubt. Different effort, same result.
You know there’s an Empress within you. A woman who leads with grace, speaks her truth without fear, and rules with presence and clarity.
But layers of stories about who you’re supposed to be have buried that knowing.
Most approaches try to rewrite these stories or build confidence on top of them.
But you can't be free of a story if you're still living in it.
INTRODUCING
Unstoried Empress
Take Your Rightful Seat.
Where Shrinking Ends and Fulfilment Begins.
The Unstoried Empress is about freeing you from the invisible stories that have kept your power contained and your sovereignty on pause.
This is a 12-month aligned journey through six transformational phases. Each one guiding you out of the deep patterning of Not Enough Syndrome and into your rightful place as the Empress of your life.
You will move from self-doubt, the need to prove yourself, please others, or strive for perfection to be loved or accepted. Instead, you return to the grounded, radiant, soul-aligned essence of who you truly are.
How it Works
With reverence, my proven Coded Stories Method® guides you to become Unstoried™ from any ‘Not Enough’ Syndrome™ story, freeing you from self-doubt, shame and playing small.
Working from the core code outward through each layer to narrative liberation.
We meet each story with reverence. We honour its role. Its mission. Its purpose. And when its work is complete, you let it go.
And it too, lets you go.
This is identity work. Liberation work. Architectural transformation at the root level of your being, over the six phases of Unstoried Empress.
The Six Phases
Unstorying the Empress
The woman on the other side? She's Throne Ready.
Phase 1: The Story
Intention: I Live Unbound
The stories we live inside follow a coded arc: beginning, middle, end. And then they loop. Not because we choose to relive them, but because we were never shown how to exit. So we replay, perform, and stay inside them, not because we’re broken, but because the nervous system remembers what the mind forgets.
In this first phase, you’ll learn to recognise the architecture of these loops and begin stepping out of the script. Through a sacred process of meeting, witnessing, and completion, you’ll say:
“You showed up. I see you. Your work is complete. And I am now free.”
We’ll trace your ‘not enough’ stories back to their ecosystem of origin. The unmet needs. The power dynamics. The early emotional coding that shaped your sense of worth. You will see the story and become unstoried from it.
In Phase 1, you will gain:
Clarity around the story loops that have shaped how you show up, hold back, and overperform.
A reverent and intimate process of meeting, witnessing, and releasing stories that now need to go.
Somatic access to truths your body carries even when your mind can’t name them.
Emotional space you didn’t know you were missing, and a presence that no longer feels weighed down.
A deep shift where the story is complete. “I'm not living by it anymore.”
Phase 2: The Identity
Intention: I Radiate from My Seat of Power
We are not our stories. But many of us became someone else to survive them.The overachiever. The strong one. The quiet one. The helper. The one who kept the peace. The one who disappeared.
These roles were responses. Each one from a moment when your worth felt in question and the role helped you stay safe. But surviving and living from your personal sovereignty are not the same thing.
A child arrives late to class because it took him longer to tie his shoes.
He’s called “slow coach.”
No one knows he was exhausted from staying up all night, afraid, listening to his parents fight.
But the name sticks.
And from that day, he moves slower. Thinks slower. Becomes what people said, over what he really is.
This is how identity forms. Through stories we internalise. Sometimes we build a self around something that was never even real about ourselves.
One thing changes everything. Learning to locate your “I.”
In this phase, we disentangle you from the roles your story required. Through clarity, reverence, and sovereign choice.
In Phase 2, you will gain:
You'll learn to notice when your little "I" gets lost in old stories and gently return your awareness to your seat of power.
Release of story identities you adopted to feel safe, accepted, or useful.
Clarity on how a single story moment, misunderstood or mislabeled, can harden into a lifelong identity.
Access to beliefs through story doorways, making unconscious programming visible and open to transformation.
Recognition of the roles you chose in response to early emotional truths, and the power to choose again.
A return to inner sovereignty, the part of you that never needed to prove, earn, or perform to belong..
PHASE 3: The Body
Sacred Intention: I Am Home in My Body
Most people live at a distance from their bodies.
They make decisions from urgency, fear, or the need to be approved.
They sense something is off but can’t quite name it.
Because we’ve been trained to leave the body, or override it with our mind.
In the Coded Stories Method®, the body becomes your home base.
It’s where you return again and again for truth, clarity, and intentional choices.
Your body is the safest place to be. It holds more than your pain. It holds your power.
You begin to lead from within.
Your vessel becomes your place of self-governance.
Through breath, sensation, posture, and presence, you begin to recognize when ‘Not Enough’ Syndrome™ stories surface.
They invite you to people-please, compare, or feel like an imposter.
From within your body, as the aware witness, you can now decline those invitations, because you’re no longer entangled in the identity that once answered them.
This is the return to embodied sovereignty, where self-leadership begins.
In Phase 3, you will gain:
Embodied self-governance and the ability to lead from your inner compass instead of outside pressure.
Pattern recognition through body awareness, noticing the emotional signals that precede people-pleasing, performing, or shutting down.
The ability to pause, regulate, and make choices that align with your truth rather than your triggers.
Emotional and nervous system regulation tools you can access in real time.
Connection to the somatic wisdom that reveals refined awareness, spaciousness, and strength through full embodiment.
Phase 4: The Being
Sacred Intention: I See Myself Through My Own Eyes
The Being is the phase where, now unstoried, you begin to settle into your wholeness.
You’re no longer searching for a script. You are finally inhabiting yourself.
This phase is about the presence you live from.
You begin to recognise when you’re acting from approval and when you’re rooted in your own truth.
You stop asking what others might want and start choosing what feels right in your body.
You stop dressing, speaking, working, or writing to be accepted and begin doing it because it’s what you want.
You stop seeing yourself through the lens of culture or family. You start seeing you.
This phase opens the doorway to individuation. Just like no two fingerprints are alike and every voice carries a distinct tone, no one sees through your eyes or feels what you feel.
You carry a frequency that is only yours. A tone and rhythm that’s uniquely yours. A deeper relationship with your distinct voice. A way of being that’s in integrity with your soul.
In Phase 4, you will gain:
Sovereignty in how you see yourself, independent of external judgements.
The ability to make aligned choices based on your truth rather than others' preferences.
A clear understanding that your frequency and self-expression are not things to explain or justify
The confidence to express yourself without shrinking or performing for approval.
A deeper relationship with your own rhythm, your own voice, and the clarity to move through life as yourself.
Phase 5: The Vision
Intention: I Am Present in My Bigness
By this phase, you’ve already unstoried the stories that once shaped your worth.
You’ve reclaimed your presence, your sacred and distinct way of being and your voice.
Now, you begin expanding the vision of the life you allow yourself to experience.
You may be raising awesome kids, building a thriving business, leading teams and delivering at home and in boardrooms. But often, the most accomplished women are the ones who’ve learned to filter their power. To shrink just enough to stay palatable. To brace slightly against their own bigness.
Here, that conditioning dissolves.
Learn to nurture and care for the inner container that holds your dreams and what is possible for you, and expand it so you can receive more. You stop filtering your voice, your impact, your visibility. You don’t bother about being “too much” and begin making decisions from the clarity that you already are enough.
Position your vision with your bigness, and embody your dreams with the spaciousness of your big ‘I’.
In Phase 5, you will gain:
You develop a truer self-concept that's in integrity with the life you feel in your core.
Gently increase your ability to hold impact, visibility, and desire without shrinking to manage them.
The freedom to stop managing how much space you take up for yourself and in the world.
An expanded inner container to hold your most magnetic life with integrity and ease.
You nurture the vision of your life as your birthright and expand your capacity to bring it to life.
A deeper embodiment of your Empress self-concept, rooted in clarity and creative leadership.
This is your permission slip to expand.
Phase 6: The Throne
Intention: I Rule With Heart
Rise and Reign:
By the time you arrive here, you’ve already become unstoried from the not enough syndrome story that caused you to shrink yourself, and disentangled from the identities. You’ve returned to your body as the place you lead from, stopped living through someone else’s lens and started choosing what’s true for you. And you’ve expanded your vision of what’s possible for you and begun allowing yourself to receive more joy, wealth and love.
Now, in this final phase, you activate and integrate your Empress self and you begin to live it.
It’s where your inner sovereignty becomes an outward expression. It’s where the clarity you’ve worked for becomes how you move naturally. And where your choices in work, love, visibility, and rest reflect the woman you’ve become.
In Phase 6, you will gain:
You have ascended to your throne as a woman whose life is guided by heart-led power.
Leadership rooted in wholeness, grace, and elevated self-respect that reflects your natural sovereignty.
A deeper connection to your inner power and influence.
A deepened ability to receive joy, wealth, intimacy, and influence without guilt or self-minimisation.
Clear energetic boundaries that protect your peace and expand your capacity.
Clarity in maintaining personal identity and healthy boundaries in love and life.
Social and relational discernment, knowing who belongs in your court, by your throne, and what no longer does.
You’ve led others. Now it’s time to lead yourself to your throne.
Your Sacred Container: Bespoke Support Every Step
The Unstoried Empress™ is a high-touch, deeply personal journey designed around you and your unique path to sovereignty.
Bespoke transformation work:
Where every step is tailored to your unique path to sovereignty.
Intimate bi-weekly sessions:
Where we meet your stories with reverence.
Unlimited Between-Session Support:
Peace of mind that you can always reach out for help and if you're stuck you won't be stuck for long as you'll have dedicated guidance throughout your journey.
Curated for the woman who leads from vision.
Exclusive invitation-only experience.
Words from Women Who Rule
Working with Ebi is one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life. I worked with Ebi to get over my fear of disappointing people, to say no and take care of myself. It might not sound like a big thing for some people, but for me it was. I leaned on Ebi’s strength, and a year on, I’m a different person. I got out of a relationship where I was totally lost. I am confident and only say yes to things that align with my wishes. I’m happy and I feel content.
Melanie L . UK
I always look forward to my coaching sessions with Ebi. I come away from every session with greater clarity and resolve. I have learned to prioritise my needs with discernment and without feeling guilty. But the biggest thing I’m proud about is that I am the queen of my mind. I take control of it every day. Where I used to see problems, I see puzzles now to solve, and it’s so liberating.
Sofia F. UK
Ebi, thank you for everything you have done for me. I don’t think I have ever had a year where I didn’t coast along but lived with a purpose beyond the new year. Taking ownership of my life, I mean real ownership, has changed the way I see myself, and I’m confident. I’ve had people commenting, noticing I’m different. My relationship with my mother has never been this good, I got a big promotion, and I’m earning more money. I’m excited about 2025 and look forward to continuing our work.
Lisa S. L. UK
Ebi, thank you for everything you have done for me. I don’t think I have ever had a year where I didn’t coast along but lived with a purpose beyond the new year. Taking ownership of my life, I mean real ownership, has changed the way I see myself, and I’m confident. I’ve had people commenting, noticing I’m different. My relationship with my mother has never been this good, I got a big promotion, and I’m earning more money. I’m excited about 2025 and look forward to continuing our work.
Claire W. UK
Ebi is the coach for any woman who feels she’s not enough, and let’s face it, we all have. Ebi is the real leader here, and I happily followed her to wake up to my enough self. I’ve stopped doubting myself so much, and I trust my choices now. I’m confidently speaking my truth, asking for what I want, saying no to what is outside my values, and running my business with greater clarity, creativity, and purpose. I’m blessed to have you in my life.
Sue N. UK
You have really helped me to connect with my body and my mind, particularly my subconscious mind, and it has been game-changing. Getting to the bottom of the stories around when my parents separated and the beliefs I unwittingly latched onto back then, which caused me so much misery, has been freeing. I feel stronger and powerful to have control over my life and the stories I tell myself about who I am and choose to believe.
Zoe G . UK
I had it all. A lucrative job, a successful career, a loving partner, and a beautiful home. However, everything changed when my company faced a downturn, leaving me at home, uncertain about my next steps. Six months later, my confidence took a hit, and a year after that, I felt completely lost. It was during this trying period that I contacted Ebi, who specialises in transformational coaching, as I was ready for real change. That’s precisely what I got. For most of my life, my identity was tied to external achievements, being the fastest swimmer on the team, captain of the netball team, and holding a C-suite title. Now, I feel liberated. My identity and confidence are deeper within me, and go beyond superficial markers like job titles. I’ve reconnected with my true self, and life feels so much more meaningful.
Rachel T. UK
What You Can Expect to Leave the Programme With:
Liberation from 'Not Enough' Syndrome™ Story Loops
You'll be Unstoried™ from the persistent narratives that kept you proving, people-pleasing, and downgrading yourself. No more cycling through the same self-doubt patterns. You’ll learn how to unstory yourself from future stories and live free from narrative imprisonment.
Embodied Sovereignty and Self-Governance
Your body becomes your trusted home base for truth and decision-making. You'll lead from within, making choices from your inner compass rather than external pressure or expectations.
Mastery of Locating Your "I"
You'll recognise when your little "I" gets caught in old stories and effortlessly return your awareness to your seat of power and your essence identity.
Unfiltered Expression of Your Bigness
No more shrinking to stay palatable. You'll be fully present in your bigness, expressing your voice, impact, and visibility without apology or self-minimisation.
Vision Rooted in Your Birthright
An expanded inner container to hold your most magnetic life with integrity and ease. You'll hold space for more wealth, impact and joy knowing these are rightfully yours.
Heart-Led Leadership and Discernment
You'll rule your life with grace and wisdom, knowing who belongs in your court and what no longer serves your throne. Your leadership reflects wholeness and enoughness.
Architectural Transformation at Your Core
You'll experience deep structural shifts in how you see yourself, move through the world, and relate to your own worth and power.
The Throne-Ready Empress
You'll ascend to your rightful seat as a woman whose life is guided by heart-led power, commanding respect through authentic self-respect and embodied presence.
Bonus
Signature Vision VIP Day (£5,000 value)
At the heart of Phase 5, when you’re stepping into your expanded vision, you’ll experience a transformational VIP intensive designed to bridge the gap between possibility and reality.
What’s Included:
Full-day Vision Embodiment Intensive:
Deep, focused work on clarifying your vision and creating your tangible roadmap forward
Two Integration Sessions
Follow-up support over 6-8 weeks to maintain momentum and ensure implementation.
This is where your expanded sense of what’s possible meets practical strategy and real-world action steps.
The Vision VIP Day has been instrumental in helping accomplished women make bold moves from career pivots to business launches because it provides both the clarity and the structured support needed to turn vision into reality.
Working with Ebi completely shifted everything for me. During our VIP day, I gained crystal clarity on what I actually wanted versus what I thought I should want. Less than a year later, I left my corporate job to pursue my creative passion. I’m now launching my own business and feel more alive than I have in years. That day changed the trajectory of my entire life.
— Sarah M., Entrepreneur UK
Who this is for
Women who find themselves caught in persistent 'Not Enough' Syndrome™ story loops despite their awesomeness.
Women who are ready to become Unstoried™ from the narratives that keep them proving, people-pleasing, or downgrading their power.
Women who know they're powerful and are ready to step into their full bigness without shrinking to stay palatable.
Women who crave deep architectural transformation at the root level of their being, beyond surface-level mindset work.
Women ready to return home to their body as their seat of power and lead from embodied sovereignty.
Women who want to see themselves through their own eyes, not through the lens of culture, family, or inherited expectations.
Women who lead others and are now ready to rule their own life with heart-led power.
Who this is not for
Those looking for quick fixes, confidence-building, or rewriting stories rather than stepping completely free from them.
Women who aren't ready to sit with the sacred discomfort of meeting their stories with reverence and then releasing them.
Those seeking group programmes or lower-touch support rather than bespoke, high-calibre guidance.
Anyone looking for traditional coaching models focused on external validation, hustle, or 'fake it till you make it' approaches.
Women who aren't ready to claim their throne emotionally, energetically, and financially at a sovereign level.
Those who want others to validate their worthiness rather than be present in it.
Those expecting to be rescued or looking for someone else to do the transformation work for them rather than taking full ownership of their journey.
Format & Flow
Months 1-5:
Phases 1 & 2 - Story and Core Identity Liberation (1 month for story work, up to 4 months for one main identity shift).
Months 6-8:
Phases 3 & 4 - Embodiment and Presence Integration
Months 9-12:
Phases 5 & 6 - Expansion and Throne Activation.
Months 13-14 (Bonus):
Living Your Empress Life (Extended support)
What's Included
Bi-weekly 1:1 Sacred Sessions (90 minutes each):
Bespoke guidance through your Coded Stories Method® journey, becoming Unstoried™ from stories that deserve to go.
Unlimited Between-Session Support
WhatsApp and email access (including voice messages) for ongoing guidance, momentum support, and any additional help you need throughout your journey.
Comprehensive Programme Materials
Supporting workbooks, worksheets, and educational content provided throughout all six phases to deepen your transformation.
Signature Vision VIP Day (£5,000 value)
Intensive breakthrough day during Phase 5 to accelerate your expansion and vision embodiment.
Meet Your Menor and Coach
I’m Ebi Lewis, the ‘Not Enough’ Syndrome™ Specialist and Creator of the Coded Stories Method®.
The Unstoried Empress™ programme emerged from my own journey of narrative liberation. Every phase of this work is something I’ve lived through myself. I’ve completed every aspect of the programme, and everything I offer is rooted in practices I embody. This isn’t a framework I teach from a distance. It’s a path I’ve walked, and one I continue to walk.
With more than 20 years of experience in coaching and mentoring, and training across mindset, performance, CBT, nutritional therapy, and Ayurveda, I bring both professional expertise and lived wisdom. My understanding of ‘Not Enough’ Syndrome™ is beyond theory. It’s personal. I know what it is to live inside those stories, and I know the freedom of becoming Unstoried™.
The Empress path is the signature and most complete expression of this work. A sacred, architectural transformation designed to guide women beyond outdated narratives into sovereignty and the heart-led reign of their true presence.
Still Got Questions?
How is this different from therapy or traditional coaching?
This is narrative liberation work using my specific Coded Stories Method®. We're not treating mental health conditions trying to build new habits. We're guiding you step completely free from stories that no longer serve you.
What if I don't know which stories need to go?
That's exactly what the early phases uncover. Most people can't see their primary stories because they're living inside them. We'll identify them together through the process.
Is this work suitable if I'm currently in therapy?
Many clients work with both. This complements therapeutic work by focusing specifically on narrative liberation rather than processing trauma or mental health treatment.
What's the time commitment beyond our sessions?
Integration happens between sessions through your daily choices and the provided materials. Embodying the work requires your conscious participation during and after sessions.
How do you select clients for this programme?
Through a thorough application process. This work requires readiness for deep transformation and the willingness and ability to meet your stories with reverence before releasing them.
What if I'm not ready to release a story during the programme?
We never force release. Sometimes stories need to be fully witnessed and honoured before they're ready to complete their mission. We follow your system's wisdom and timing.
Would you like me to add more questions or modify these?
Created By Ebi Lewis, founder of the Enoughness Collective LTD.
The Enoughness Collective LTD. is a coaching, mentoring and online training transformation company.
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